
"Childhood is messy and joyful, dangerous and crude. Everything is truly an adventure, and nothing is certain. The kids cuss, like I certainly did. They ride their bikes recklessly, just one skid or sharp turn away from slamming into the pavement and serious injury. There is a sense of danger every day. And when you're a kid, you LOVE it. There's nothing, absolutely nothing, like waking up a summer's day and having no idea what the day will bring."
I wrote that two years ago for a retrospective on E.T. THE EXTRA-TERRESTRIAL. I think I may have overromantized childhood a bit. Much of childhood contains fear, confusion, and a questioning of your place in the world. When you're a kid, it's all about you, which seems very self-centered but it's really not. Kids aren't capable of seeing the big picture most of the time. That's what growing up is - a slow, incremental build-up to the real world and everything it brings with it. It's not necessarily a loss of innocence as it is a loss of a certain kind of perspective.
Spike Jonze's new film, WHERE THE WILD THINGS ARE (based on the bestselling children's book by Maurice Sendak) understands that perfectly. Jonze understands that kids mold their reality for easy consumption. Mom's new boyfriend, her job, your sister's alienation of you as she gets older - these are difficult concepts to swallow. Giant monsters, vampires that eat buildings, forts - that's easy. The rules are clear because they're your rules. You dictate the terms and lay the foundations. And then, slowly, you let the real world creep in in ways that you can handle. WHERE THE WILD THINGS ARE is that rare film about childhood as opposed to being for children. It's about that moment in your childhood, that first step - and it's a tiny one - to adulthood where your perspective starts to shift into that larger sense of things.
The first time we see Max (Max Records), he's in a joyful rage, chasing the family dog around the house, not caring what's in the way. Jonze shoots much of the film in a handheld style but it's never incoherent like so many other shaky-cam films. And here, he captures full-on childhood in about 15 seconds. It's a wonderful beginning and sets the film up for the audience - a mainline injection of childhood wonder straight to the brain. It's interesting that Jonze uses his experiences on JACKASS, of all shows, to great effect to show the general mayhem and chaos of childhood. Max goes outside and plays with his imaginary friends and builds himself a snow fort. Then he sees his sister and her friends, and what starts out as a snowball fight quickly escalates into more than Max can handle. Frightened and emotional, Max retreats home.
Max's mom (Catherine Keener) is both frustrated and deeply loving to Max. He's too much to handle, but there's a creative mind there that's so beautiful that every moment has to be captured somehow. This scene of the film, in a way, I related to the most. When I was 9 I bubbled up with stories, wrote them down, and even when I was a very young child I wanted to tell stories. There's a need to express yourself at that age, as real a need as hunger or thirst, and when you can't articulate something it sends you in a rage so deep and wide you can't see the end of it. That's where Max is in his life, and when that rage springs out after an evening of confusing messages and a strange new man in his mom's life, he bites her and runs out the door. There, he comes to a sea with a boat, and Max travels the vast ocean to an island of giant monsters, the Wild Things, who need someone to guide them. Now THIS Max can understand, and so Max, using his creativity, becomes their king. But Max soon discovers that, much like the real world, things change in life and he's not equipped to handle all of those changes.
The effects work on the Wild Things is absolutely wonderful. The mix of giant suits and CGI faces is essential for the film to work. There's no sense of disconnect with them - they occupy space, they breathe, they even have snotty noses. It's some of the best use of digital effects I've ever seen. The main monster, Carol (voiced by James Gandolfini), seems to represent Max's childhood resistance to change, but it's not exactly that simple. All the monsters represent aspects of Max, from his family relations, to his creativity, to his inability to communicate, but there's never a moment when you can pinpoint what one monster is to Max as it's constantly shifting perspective. In his way, Max is working out his tumultuous life in easy ways that he can understand.
I'm really resisting getting into how emotional the film made me. For one thing, it's probably going to affect everyone who sees it in different ways. The parts that really emotionally moved me the most were actually very early on in the film. Like Max, I have an older sister, and I completely understand Max's frustration at how she slowly grows apart from him as siblings tend to do, and how Max retreats into his fantasy world to deal with that. It was the family scenes before Max runs off to the island that deeply affected me. Sitting by your mom, telling her a story off the top of your head - I've done that. Max is extremely creative and intelligent, but he isn't capable yet of understanding the world around him - not yet.
WHERE THE WILD THINGS ARE is about that first step out of childhood, in dealing with the pain and confusion that it brings, and seeing the world with new eyes. Spike Jonze has made a film for the ages here. It's not exactly a film for children as it is a film about childhood, and the deep emotions and ideas it evokes probably won't be understood by younger kids who are still in the thick of it. They'll probably wonder why their parents are brushing tears away from their eyes. Enjoy it why you can, kids. Because it never, ever comes back.